Saturday, October 6, 2012

My Trips to New Jersey: A Series of Tedventures


So, New Jersey, why the Hell would Ted want to go there, anyway?  Indeed, why would anyone?  Well, Mr. or Ms. Superior, my Dad lives there.  Well, here.  I’m typing this in New Jersey at my Dad’s place.  I drove down to visit him over a long weekend.  I’m seriously considering flying next time because it was a pain in the ass to get here.  It always is, for me.

He lives in Ocean County.  It’s the retirement community capital of the United States, according to my Dad after chatting with me over some Scotch.  Anyway, he used to live in Maine, and I settled in Maine after I got out of the regular army, partly to go to the University of Maine, partly to live closer to him.  Then, soon after I graduated from UMaine, he and my step-mom Janet moved to Nueva Joisey.  They have a condo in a nice, little, politically challenged—perhaps another post someday—retirement community.  I’ve driven here four times, and I’ve never made it here in a reasonable amount of time.

Once, I almost went to Scranton, Pennsylvania.  Yes, I almost completely overshot New Jersey.  Apparently, Janet left a 6 or an 8 off one of the routes when she was giving me directions.  Once I drove from Baltimore, where I was participating in centralized training for the VA. The trip wasn’t that long, but leaving Baltimore at about 5:30, and hitting traffic in Philadelphia, I got to my dad’s about an hour or so after stupid Yahoo Maps indicated I would.  Whatever.  The last time I drove down with my daughter, Amber, for Dad’s 80th birthday celebration.  Apparently, as I found out later, the Connecticut State Police had to shoot someone in the northbound lanes of Interstate 84.  All four northbound lanes were closed, and there was only one southbound lane open.  It was a holiday weekend.  Amber and I got off the highway to eat, but it didn’t make any difference.  What should have been an eight-or-nine-hour drive took about twelve hours.  If only I’d had a GPS to warn me about the traffic!

That’s why I thought this trip would be different.  I have a handy-dandy GPS, and as I approached Hartford, Connecticut it foretold of the impending jamming around Hartford and beyond.  Would I like to save time, avoid the traffic, and only add about ten minutes to the ETA?  You bet your sweet ass I would.  So there I was, barreling down the Merrit Parkway or whatever the hell it was.  I’m not sure. Part of the convenience of using a GPS is that I don’t have to pay attention to what road I’m on.  All I have to do is not hit the cars in front of me and follow directions.  Anyway, the rest of Connecticut was fine, but when I got to New York, the trip got pretty interesting. 

After a couple more accepted offers of time-saving, traffic-avoiding bypasses, I was getting off the Henry Hudson Parkway in Manhattan and driving down Broadway to get to the George Washington Bridge.  In my GPS’ defense, the traffic on Broadway actually moved.  The few miles from the bridge to the first toll gate on the New Jersey turnpike took a few hours.  The last mile took nearly two. 

But it wasn’t all bad, though.  I listened to some music.  I exchanged friendly, knowing expressions with my fellow traffic hostages.  I was a positive force for good, sending out pleasant vibes that said, “We can get through this, together!”  That’s probably the only reason there weren’t any road rage fatalities that I could see.  While sitting in my car, I could also see the Manhattan skyline, and I didn’t have to worry about watching the road because I wasn’t moving.  I think I saw about 10 floors completed on the new World Trade Center.  America! Fuck yeah!

But it was pretty bad, though.  My fuel light came on with about 300 yards and 25 minutes to go before the toll gates.  This is when I started to feel stressed.  There wasn’t anything I could do about the traffic.  I was going to get through it, and it was going to take a long time.  Why worry about that.  There wasn’t anything I could do about the gas situation.  I didn’t know if I could make it to a gas station in time.  I had no idea how roadside assistance could get to me with a couple gallons of gas.  I didn’t want to have the collective honks of all of Northern New Jersey haunting me forever.  All I knew was that there was gas .6 miles away, beyond the toll gates.  That was .6 miles that I might not make.  That is one handy GPS feature, and that was one magnificent sigh of relief when I made it to the service plaza and the gas pumps.

It was pretty hot for October, too, 80 degrees according to my dashboard thermometer.  Well, it was much hotter than I’ve been used to at this time of year since I’ve lived in Maine.  Perhaps it felt so hot because I had to have the heat on.  Now, the mechanics of it are beyond my comprehension, but whenever I’m in long-term stop-start traffic like this, my engine revs really high, 5,000 RPM’s high, while idling.  The engine temperature gauge reads normally, but cranking the heater to pull heat off the engine works, and the tachometer goes back below 1,000.  I opened the windows, so there was a nice breeze, well, a breeze.  While the windows were down, a carful of college-aged kids asked me if there were any cash only lanes ahead.  We could clearly see the flashing lights on the EZ-Pass lanes, but there was nothing marking the cash lanes.  “I hope so,” I said, and we all had a good laugh.

There weren’t.  Well, there were, but I was on the far left.  By the time I realized that I would have to merge right just to get through one of the toll gates, it was a struggle, and the truck beside me kept so close behind the next car that I had a difficult time making it that one lane over, let alone the four lanes to the next gate where I could get a toll ticket.  “What is happening?” I thought. “Are they just letting people go because they don’t want to hold this bullshit up anymore?”

Ah, sweet innocence.  They weren’t.  When I got to the actual toll booth, the guy asked for my ticket.  He also explained how you drive through the toll gates, and there’s this machine on the side.  It spits out tickets.  Then you give the ticket to the guy at the next plaza, and he’ll tell you how much you have to pay for the toll.  It was $11.80 without the ticket.  I didn’t get mad at the guy.  He’s just doing his job, and I’m too laid-back to get pissy with someone over something stupid. I did, however, yell, “Suck it!” at the people who were honking at me during my little chat with the toll guy.  I thanked him, wished him a good night, and I was finally on my way.

I got to my dad’s very late, 9:30, well past his bed time, but Janet had some soup to warm up for me.  Dad and I caught up over the last of his Scotch.  As always, just the time to catch up with Dad was well worth the trip.

And now, I’m getting ready to order an EZ-Pass electronic tag.

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